About Us

Our previous singles nights were a huge success and we loved doing them. However, we wanted the next ones to be more personal to the people being invited. So a lot more 'secret' (hence the sshh) so we only contact the people who we can see connections for, and then only that group is invited to an event, and only that group know the location of the event. Its all very secret so it creates a much more intimate experience. The 'mingle' part of the word simply does what it says on the tin- once the group is together it is time to mingle! 

Honestly- we just love to bring people together. We truly believe it is so hard to find the right person now and all these apps have made it even more difficult to a certain extent. As now you judge a photo of someone within seconds without even giving them a chance to see if there is a connection. Also there is that fear that people are talking to multiple people on an app at the same time. Its so hard to meet people now, and if we can help we will. The feeling of bringing two people together is amazing.

Search shh...mingle on both apple and android app stores. Its free and simple to use.

Extremely confidential. No data is shared at all with any external parties and no one outside of the organisation can see or read any personal information.

We will contact you via phone or text and simply let you know the time and date of the event. There is a charge to attend the events which is minimal. At the event you will participate in speed dating and have mingling time with people that are a perfect match for you on paper, and then let you all do the rest. 

A fun event hosted by Sunny & Baz,  jam packed with fun in a no pressure relaxed environment. The people attending will have already have things in common with each other based on the information given on the initial information given on the app. We have mingling time, speed dating and conversation starters so you get a chance to speak to everyone. Don't worry about being nervous or shy as we will have prompts, and we'll be there with you all to get you all relaxed on the night. Our events aren't like other singles nights- we ensure we only invite people that we can see matches with on paper. Come along and see why our success rate has always been consistently high!   

You stay on the system until we do. This is why we created an app, as it will store the data for us. So when your perfect match does upload their information we will get notified and can contact you both. You have nothing to lose by uploading your information.

We will try our hardest to arrange a date, time and location that works for everyone but sometimes this will be hard to do for everyone. If there is a date you cannot attend that you get invited to we will try to plan another event that you can attend. 

We cannot guarantee you'll find love, but we will try our hardest to make sure you will. You will only be invited to the event based on your answers matching and being similar to other people. The app works to ensure you are matched to the type  of person you are looking for and vice versa. If you have requirements that we are unable to match you with, the app holds your details for future reference.

We absolutely understand that you may be nervous to attend alone, so of course bring a pal to join you on the journey, but they won't be allowed into our private area. They are more than welcome to relax in another area of the space but our area will be for singles for meeting only. 

We are creating a very relaxed atmosphere, so please try not to feel too nervous. We are doing all we can to create an environment that feels pressure free. We will have talking points, prompt cards, group activities and time for you to get to know everyone there. Even if you don't find love on the night we are confident you will find life long friends. Try your hardest to relax and enjoy the night. Baz & Sunny will be on hand during the evening to get conversation flowing and to create some fun!

Falling in love is so much more than that initial attraction. You need to see that person in a group setting, in a 1-2-1 setting and see their personality. As the old saying goes- you shouldn't judge a book by its cover. Our evening is designed to see the attendees in different settings and allows you to have good conversation whilst feeling relaxed and comfortable.

We can assist in the swapping numbers and details at the end of the evening for you, or if you feel comfortable enough during the night go ahead and get their number! 

Yes! there really is a need. Please do apply again, but this time via the app. We had so many applications previously it got difficult to store the data and manage it in a way that we could easily see matches. Whereas now the app stores it all and gives the data in a way that can match people by age, location, hobbies etc. Its a nifty little app! 

We may not have got back to you before because we could not see a match for you on paper, however, this app will now do all the work for us and will be able to match you with any new applications that come in.

I completely see why this would feel strange, especially if you've never done it before. However, all you are doing is telling us what you want in a partner and we will see if we have someone that matches. There is nothing more in it. If we do see a match then you get invited to meet in a relaxed, comfortable and secure environment. Give it a go, you have nothing to lose. 

The whole of the UK. The app is so clever that it can gather data from singles in a certain area and bring you all together, or it can match you with someone from another area if that is what you want. Just put everything into the app and let it do the matching work. 

No, you must only put real and accurate information on the app. You are lucky to be blessed with youthful looks but people will want to know your real age.